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...pertama...ichi ban...


Sebuah rubrik dari situs BKKBN (Badan Koordinasi Keluarga Berencana) yang menyebutkan bahwa peranan orang tua terutama ibu sangat penting terhadap perkembangan anaknya, diantaranya yaitu:
1. Menumbuhkan perasaan mencintai dan mengasihi pada anak melalui interaksi yang jauh melibatkan sentuhan fisik dan kasih sayang.
2. Menumbuhkan kemampuan berbahasa pada anak melalui kegiatan-kegiatan bercerita dan mendongeng, serta melalui kegiatan yang lebih dekat dengan anak, yakni berbicara dari hati ke hati kepada anak.
3. Mengajarkan tentang peran jenis kelamin perempuan, tentang bagaimana harus bertindak sebagai perempuan, dan apa yang diharapkan oleh lingkungan sosial dari seorang perempuan.

well, read point number one, after i read that, i wanna cry, coz my moms never touch me even just smile at me..maybe we touch each other only when lebaran (sungkeman) or before i go to school..umm,, yeah and my parents always touch me when i was a baby or a little a girl, but since i was in elementary school until now (24 years old..an adult)...yup..aq tak pernah merasakan sentuhan kasih sayang dri ibu..saat merasa sedih, bete, ingin sekali ada dalam pelukan ibu, tapi tak bisa, karena ibuku bukan org seperti itu..shes always busy with her works as a nurse..pernah sekali qu berpikir, emm maybe her anger to me is her way to show her love and care, but as we know, kadang2 kemarahan tidak meluluhkan perasaan atau meluruskan masalah..jadinya malah menambah runyem suasana hati..ujung2nya, nangis dan teriak2 sendiri di kamar,,

i remember with my lecture said that, menurut penelitian, a person who never being touch or "kurang mendapatkan sentuhan"..lebih cenderung untuk mudah sakit... umm,, mungkin nie pelajaran buat qu,,begitu tidak nyamannya, tidak bisa dekat dengan ibu sendiri, sedihnya.. hingga orang lain lebih tau rahasia pribadi qu dibandingkan mama..if i ask her, what im like, what my fav color, song, or food,,i guarante she cannot answer that..coz she never ask me, klu mama membelikan sesuatu untukku, selalu barang itu adalah barang yg mama suka, warna yg mama suka, dgn alasan, kalau mama suka, pasti kamu juga suka...or everything, semuanya di tetapkan kalu mamah cocok pake sabun ini, kamu juga pasti cocok, kalu mamah suka ini kmu jg hrus sukaa,,huff moms, even ur my mother, but we are two person with diferent personality, (ya meski ada kesamaannya dlm be2rapa hal, tp dalam hal kesukaan pasti berbeda khan,,,)..

hingga ke masalah pekerjaan, she never ask me what i want,, shes just said "udah pap, daftarin aja jadi guru SD..." same with this..masalah jodoh.."klu ga ada aja yg ngelamar kamu, udah kamu nikah aja sama temannya papa yang duda itu, harus mauu.." (mmooomzz...._)..hiks.. in other words, shes always beyond me...yess,,she tooks my life..as if my life is her life,, ,,jangankan sentuhan, ungkapan kasih sayang,,kata "kenapa anakku sayang"...its never heard..so, pantaskah aq bertanya pada mama.." momz, do u love me,,?"... once u said to me, "kayaknya klu mama udh tua, kalian pasti ninggalin mama khan.."...momz,, i'll never leave u..why u always negative on me..as if u never trust me as ur daughter,, and...so on...i dunno... i know maybe this is not important but,,i just wanna say.."mom..u are so important for me, so please look at my eyes with ur heart"......

buat para ibu dimana saaja,,rigth know, look at ur child,,and give them a kiss and a big hug,,coz ull never know that ur child is needed u..^^....

A Song For Mama (Boyz II Men)

You taught me everything
And everything you've given me
I always keep it inside
You're the driving force in my life, yeah

There isn't anything
Or anyone that I can be
And it just wouldn't feel right
If I didn't have you by my side

You were there fo me to love and care for me
When skies were grey
Whenever I was down
You were always there to comfort me
And no one else can be what you have been to me
You'll always be you always will be the girl
In my life for all times


Mama, mama you know I love you
Oh you know I love you
Mama, mama you're the queen of my heart
Your love is like
Tears from the stars
Mama, I just want you to know
Lovin you is like food to my soul

You're always down for me
Have always been around for me even when I was bad
You showed me right from my wrong
Yes you did

And you took up for me
When everyone was downing me
You always did understand
You gave me strength to go on

There was so many times
Looking back when I was so afraid
And then you come to me
And say to me I can face anything
And no one else can do
What you have done for me
You'll always be
You will always be the girl in my life

Comments

EditTag said…
pertama? lalu nyambungnya sama boys II men?
Ghie-Ghie said…
hehe...emg ga boleh ya klo nyambungnya sama boyzII men..??bru perdana nulis d blog nie..maklum klu ga nyambung,,hehe
EditTag said…
oh baru? tapi tampilannya dah keren gini, belajar dr mana?